Dr. Paul Borosky, DBA, MBA
Business Plan Writer · Business Consultant
How Do You Get Restaurant Customers to Come Back? Notice Them the Second Time
The customer who recommends you and the customer who comes back are usually different people. Most restaurants only work on the first one.
Written by Dr. Paul Borosky, DBA, MBA
The Definition
What Are Repeat Customers in a Restaurant?
Repeat customers, or regulars, are guests who return to a restaurant after their first visit. Customer retention is driven by attentive service, consistent food quality, and personal recognition, and it is measured by actual return visits rather than stated intent to return.
“The customer who tells their friends about you and the customer who comes back on Thursday are often not the same customer. You need both. But only one of them pays you every week, and that one wants to be noticed.”
Need the answer fast? Read the gold Short Answer boxes and the numbered steps. Want the full picture? Follow Fast Frankie the fox, owner of Fast Frankie’s Fire-Baked Pizza, from Dr. Paul’s Fabled Forest, as he finds out his most loyal customer has been invisible for a whole season. The story shows up in a few short gold notes along the way. The study numbers sit in one section, clearly marked.
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Meet Frankie: The Invisible Regular
Some lessons stick better as a story. Dr. Paul’s Fabled Forest is his business school told through a forest full of small business owners. Doctor Owl, a dry-witted consultant who lives in the Lone Oak, helps them fix the same problems real owners face. Today he walks into Fast Frankie’s Fire-Baked Pizza on a Thursday, the way he has every Thursday all season.
FRANKIE: (without looking up from the oven) Welcome to Fast Frankie’s! First time? The fire-baked special is great.
DOCTOR OWL: Frankie. I have been here every Thursday since spring.
FRANKIE: (finally looking up) You have?
DOCTOR OWL: Same table. Same mushroom pie. Same tea.
FRANKIE: I… we’re just so busy. Everyone looks the same at the dinner rush.
DOCTOR OWL: Then here is a free idea. Your busiest customers are not your most loyal ones. Your loyal ones are the quiet ones who come back. And you have never once noticed them.
Frankie looks around the dining room. A badger by the window. A rabbit at the counter. He realizes he has seen both of them before.
An original Fabled Forest moment. Similar stories about Doctor Owl and the forest’s owners are in Sales for Small Businesses, Book 5 of Dr. Paul’s Fabled Forest Business School.
Frankie has a decision to make. Keep reading. You’ll see what he does, and why it works for your restaurant too.
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Two Different Customers
Why Recommending and Returning Are Not the Same
Dr. Paul’s study of 752 customer reviews across 12 restaurants in 12 states found something most owners never consider. The customers who recommend you and the customers who come back are mostly different people.
Driven by the place: getting in, a signature dish, a room worth describing.
Driven by attention, the food’s texture, and being looked after.
Frankie’s marketing was all about new customers. His regulars came back every week, and nobody inside the building noticed.
Show the Numbers
What Brings Restaurant Customers Back?
| Finding | What the reviews showed |
|---|---|
| Attentive service | 86 reviews described staff checking on them. They mentioned returning at 24.4%, against 8.6% for everyone else, nearly three times the rate. |
| Recognition | 0 of 752 described a restaurant recognizing a returning customer. |
| Regulars in the reviews | 33 mentioned a prior visit. They were there, writing about being regulars, at 11 of the 12 restaurants. |
| “I will be back” | 78 promised to return. Only 5 of those had ever been before. |
| Promoters vs. regulars | 93 recommended the restaurant. 78 said they would return. Only 6 did both. |
“I’ll be back” is not money. The only number that tells you about loyalty is how many people actually came back.
For a real example, see how Dr. Paul planned a soul food restaurant moving its regulars into downtown Washington DC on the Washington DC business plan writer page.
The Return Plan
How Do You Get Restaurant Customers to Come Back?
- 1
Set an attention standard
Every table checked on a schedule. Every section covered. Attention is the strongest return signal in the study.
- 2
Start a regulars list
Name, visit date, usual order. A notebook at the host stand works.
Frankie’s FixFrankie put a notebook by the register. Name, day, usual order. The badger by the window is Mrs. Bramble. Mushroom and olive. Fridays.
- 3
Say “welcome back”
The cheapest loyalty tool in the business, and nobody in the study was using it.
- 4
Fix the food’s texture first
Customers who described how food felt, tender, crispy, juicy, were the ones who came back.
- 5
Count return visits every month
From reservations, loyalty sign-ups, or your regulars list.
From Dr. Paul’s Work as a Business Consultant
What a Business Consultant Measures on Loyalty
Ask a restaurant owner how many regulars they have and you will usually get a guess. When Dr. Paul works with a restaurant on customers, the first goal is to make that a number.
Once owners count second visits instead of promises, they usually find their marketing has been aimed at the wrong customer.
Your promoters fill the room once. Your regulars fill it every week. Build a plan for each, and count the one that pays the rent.
From Dr. Paul’s Fabled Forest
What Frankie Did Next
The next Thursday, Doctor Owl walked into Fast Frankie’s.
FRANKIE: (waving from the oven) Doctor Owl! Mushroom pie and tea? Your table’s open.
DOCTOR OWL: You remembered.
FRANKIE: It’s in the notebook. Mrs. Bramble came in Friday and I said welcome back. She brought her sister this week.
DOCTOR OWL: And how many came back this month?
FRANKIE: I don’t know yet. But next month I will. I’m counting now.
The lesson for your restaurant: Your regulars are already there. Notice them, remember them, and count how many come back.
In Your Business Plan
How Does a Customer Return Plan Go in Your Business Plan?
Most restaurant marketing plans only talk about getting new customers. Lenders notice when yours talks about keeping them. Related guides: How Should a Restaurant Handle the Wait?.
- 1
Name a return goal
Second visits per month, not likes or followers.
- 2
Describe your service standard
How often tables get checked, and who owns each section.
- 3
Describe your regulars system
How you will remember names and usual orders.
- 4
Show how you will measure it
A monthly count of return visits.
This is one piece of the full plan. See How to Write a Restaurant Business Plan for every section, start to finish.
Want more customers coming back?Dr. Paul works with restaurant owners on service standards, regulars systems, and how to measure loyalty.
Questions
Restaurant Repeat Customer Questions
How do restaurants get repeat customers?
Attentive service, consistent food, and recognizing returning guests. In Dr. Paul’s study of 752 customer reviews across 12 restaurants in 12 states, attentive service carried the strongest return signal.
Why don’t restaurant customers come back?
Often because nobody noticed them the first time. Recognition, attention, and food that is memorable for how it tastes all drive return visits.
How do I measure restaurant customer loyalty?
Count actual return visits through reservations, a loyalty program, or a simple regulars list, rather than relying on reviews that promise to return.
What Restaurant Customers Really Want
What gets customers in the door, what brings them back, and why those are different jobs.